Opening the Door of Faith
One lovely summer day, a girl of about 9 or 10 years wanted to go out and skate. She already had her skates strapped to her shoes when her mother told her to pick up one of the family’s Melmac bowls that was sitting on the back step and bring it inside. The girl was furious. She had just put on her skates and now would have to take them off. Likely there would be other things she would have to do once she got inside with the bowl, and she might not get back outside to skate again!
She angrily stamped on the bowl and it broke in half – right down the middle. It was one of the family’s regular meal dishes and relatively recently purchased. She hadn’t intended to break it, but the deed was done.
This kind of offense, from a child with a temper, could not go unaddressed. Her mother had to do something to make it clear this kind of behavior was not acceptable. But spanking was not going to do any good. The girl would not change her behavior based on that threat – she was beyond that age.
The mother’s solution was to pick up the bowl, setting one side inside the other. Then she told the girl that the bowl would have to be replaced. The full set was needed each day for the family meals. So, the girl would have to do extra work to earn the money to buy the new bowl. Furthermore, the girl was not allowed to go back outside to skate that day!
That was the last time the girl ever stamped on a bowl. Not the last time she ever lost her temper, but that’s a different story for a different time…
The challenge of getting people to do what is best for a family or a community, a nation or a world, is multi-faceted. In general, through the centuries, we have begun to learn that violent treatment or responses don’t reliably lead to reform or better personal decision-making. On the contrary, they more often lead to more violence – a tit-for-tat kind of relationship. You hurt me, so I will respond by doing something to hurt you. The cycle goes on and on for generations and only becomes more costly as weaponry becomes more destructive or access to social media spreads outrage and anger more broadly.
In accounts of the first missionary journey of St. Paul and his companion, Barnabas, we see a different type of response to opposition and even to violent rejection. Paul and Barnabas traveled through Asia Minor on these journeys, entering city after city, going to the synagogue, and sharing the news of Jesus’ life, death, and resurrection. They always went first to the Jewish community, including Gentiles who had converted to Judaism. The message was received by some, but often the leaders of the community rejected it. When the message was rejected, Paul and Barnabas spoke to non-Jews, those known as Gentiles.
The message was received much more easily in the Gentile community because there were not so many years of expectation of the coming of one type of Messiah. The idea that the Messiah had come, not just for the Jews but for everyone, was welcomed by groups of people in each town they visited. They stayed for a while, teaching and encouraging the new followers of the way. Sometimes they had to leave quickly, chased out by angry townspeople or authorities. At least once they were stoned. They got up and left that town afterwards, having survived the experience. The rejection and physical abuse they suffered were accepted as part of the cost of their ministry. Following the example of Jesus, they did not return evil or curses for that which they received.
On their way back to Antioch, the town from which they had initially departed on their journey, they visited the communities of faith which had grown up as a result of their first visits. They encouraged the people and their leaders to “persevere in the faith” – as we would say: “hang in there!” The hardships they were enduring because of their faith were part of the cost of faithful discipleship, part of entering the kingdom of God.
They reported to the community in Antioch what “God had done with them,” opening the “door of faith to the Gentiles.” (Acts 14:21-27)
The night before he died, after Judas left the Upper Room, Jesus gave his friends “a new commandment.” What was it? “Love one another.” Not just a little bit. Not just when people are behaving well. Not just because they feel like it right now. “As I have loved you, so you should also love one another.”
Jesus was aware that he was going to be betrayed, yet he did not say that only those who were faithful were to be loved. Everyone was to be loved. Loved and forgiven because they are loved.
The characteristic by which the world will know a person to be a disciple of Jesus is clear. “This is how all will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”
That love that is characteristic of the disciple opens the door of faith for others to enter. (Jn 13:31-33a, 34-35)
John’s Book of Revelation describes what happens when that door of faith is open. God dwells with the human race. He is with them, wiping tears from their eyes in the hard times, ending the power of death and pain. “The old order has passed away.” And “the One who sat on the throne said, ‘Behold, I make all things new.’” (Rev 21:1-5a)
The One who sat on the throne? Remember who that one was? The Lamb! It’s the Lord Jesus who makes all things new in love and forgiveness.
All things new. What a wonderful promise.
What does that mean for us today? Through the centuries, the community of faith has shared the news of Jesus. Sometimes we have done it in gentle ways, with loving service as the hallmark of our witness. Sometimes, we have totally missed the point of Jesus’ words about love. We have tried to force people to receive the Good News in a way that actually came across as Terrible News. Like the mother who had to decide how to deal with the daughter’s temper and the broken bowl, the response can be love-based or it can be a response that tears down the person who has not responded as we had hoped.
When we force people to behave in ways we believe are correct, as in just the way we personally behave, we don’t respect the reality of God’s presence within them and their experience of that presence.
When we share the news of God’s love through loving service, the welcoming of immigrants, the poor, asylum seekers, the old, those with learning differences, those who struggle with mental or physical illness, that news can take root and grow.
Our words and service must be offered to all, including those with whom we disagree. Patience, loving service, a willingness to seek common ground, and forgiveness when tempers flare or harsh words erupt are all part of the witness to which we are called.
How will we respond today? Will we slam shut the doors to close out others who come from different places and different histories? Will we refuse to help, to share from our abundance so that those whose lives have not been blessed with that same abundance can at least have the basics of food, clothing, shelter, schooling, and healthcare? Do we say that people should just work harder, when they are already working two or more jobs to keep a roof over the heads of themselves and their families? Or do we offer help with food and access to healthcare and housing?
If we are truly a community of followers of Jesus, we are called to open the door of faith to others whom we meet, whether those with whom we are familiar and share a common history and culture or those who come to us from other lands and cultures. That door of faith has a single key – the love that is to be characteristic of the followers of Jesus. “Love one another as I have loved you.” Totally, without restraint, and filled with respect and compassion.
The kingdom comes, all will be new, when the news we share is truly the Good News of the presence of God in the community of loving service. Let us encourage each other and work together to continue to share the promise of new life and the love of God in our day to day lives. May we together learn to offer and receive forgiveness for the times we fall short. Through the loving care and guidance of the One who loves us, we learn to serve all we meet. And then, the door to faith can open for all.
The world awaits our witness and outreach in loving service.
Readings for the Fifth Sunday of Easter – Cycle C
