Water – Gentle or Wild?
Living beside the ocean for over 35 years, I have seen water’s gentleness and fury. Sometimes the surface of the ocean is flat – barely a wave to be seen. Not many surfers seen either on those days! Other times, the ocean wildly rages – waves crashing against the cliffs and roaring as they hit. Large sections of the mudstone rock of the cliffs fall into the water, as if sliced by a great knife. No surfers those days. It’s just too dangerous.
A few years ago, we had one of those long winter storms. Major areas of the cliffs were washed into the ocean. One in particular was impressive. The slice fell off from a section of cliff that jutted out into the ocean beside a beach. The rocks sat there as if wondering what to do. But by the next day, they too had been washed away. Only the sand remained.
Sand is washed away and beaches become much smaller in the stormy winter months. Then the more gentle waves of spring bring back the sand and the beaches grow larger again.
Most of the time, the ocean waves are not too high and not too low. However, the ocean is never to be trusted. Sneaker waves have caught more than one person who turned their back to the ocean, sometimes with disastrous results, others with rather funny ones. A person I heard speaking at a conference once told of the time he had turned his back on the ocean, gotten caught by a wave, and emerged without his swim trunks. He didn’t make that mistake again!
Swimmers caught in a rip tide are all too frequently found a few days later as their bodies wash up on shore somewhere else along the coast. Coast Guard helicopters fly back and forth over the water. Fire department surf rescue teams go out to try to find them. But the water is simply too cold for them to survive very long and they are gone.
These thoughts come to mind as we ponder the images of water and the Lord’s gift of protection and life in the readings for this Third Sunday of Lent. The water in question in the readings was not found in oceans but rather was hidden behind walls of rock or deep below the surface of the land. Much less easily accessible and more controlled, but even more precious because it could be consumed and used to sustain life there. Ocean water is too salty for drinking and watering crops.
Water in the desert
Water is essential for life as we know it. Wandering in the desert, far from the lives they had known in Egypt, the Hebrew people felt how tenuous life could be. Where would food be found? Where was water? It was so very, very dry. At least in Egypt, though they weren’t free, at least they had food and water! Whose fault could it be that things were in such a difficult state now? They hadn’t asked to be led into the desert. Well, maybe they had asked the Lord to deliver them, but through the desert? That hadn’t been part of the plan. Why not an arrangement to be free again in Egypt as once they had been?
And so, as humans do, they grumbled and complained. “Why did you ever make us leave Egypt? Was it just to have us die here of thirst with our children and our livestock?”
Poor Moses. What could he do about it himself? He hadn’t counted on that either, though he had experienced traveling through dry, desert lands when he left Egypt as a young man.
Wisely, he turned to the Lord he had first met in a burning bush when he was a shepherd. “What shall I do with this people? A little more and they will stone me!”
The Lord, ever faithful and caring, instructed him to go to the front of the people and strike the stone wall there with the same rod he had used at the parting of the Red Sea as they fled Pharoah’s army when leaving Egypt. Water flowed forth from the stone, to the amazement of all.
The event was memorialized through the name given the place at the time – Massah and Meribah. The names refer to legal accusations and a trial and testing. This was the time and place at which the Israelites argued with and tested the Lord. The answer to their question, “Is the Lord in our midst or not?” was a resounding Yes! (Ex 17:3-7)
Psalm 95 is just one of the songs and references to this event in Hebrew scripture. “Oh, that today you would hear his voice; ‘Harden not your hearts as at Meribah, as in the day of Massah in the desert.’” They had seen his work and still doubted – something all too commonly done to this day among even those who call him Lord. (Ps 95:1-2, 6-7, 8-9)
So at at Meribah and Massah, we see regular water provided in an unconventional way. More commonly, we see things that happen around wells, springs, lakes, or cisterns in more populated regions. One of those occurred as Jesus and his disciples were traveling through Samaria one day.
A new understanding of water from an unexpected visitor
Jews and Samaritans were not on friendly terms, to say the least. There was a solid disdain and even hatred between the two communities. Jews often traveled many extra miles to go around Samaria rather than through it when traveling from Galilee to Jerusalem. But for some reason, Jesus decided to go directly through Samaria.
It was around noon, St. John tells us, and they stopped in Sychar to find food. This town was very near the land Joseph had inherited from his father Jacob. Jacob’s well was there. This was an historic town as a result.
Jesus waited by the well while his disciples went into town to buy food. A woman approached to draw water. The fact that she came at noon rather than in the morning with the other women is important to note. This meant she was not a person of good reputation. Likely, she was shunned by everyone else in town.
Yet Jesus spoke to her. Jews didn’t speak to Samaritans casually or in a friendly manner. Men didn’t speak to women they didn’t know. And a Jew would never think to ask a favor or help from a Samaritan. But Jesus ignored all that and asked, “Give me a drink.”
She was shocked. This was unheard of. “How can you, a Jew, ask me, a Samaritan woman, for a drink?”
Jesus calmly responded that rather than be shocked, she should be asking for “living water” from him. That phrase, living water, referred at face value to running water. So, she was puzzled what he might mean by that. There was no running water anywhere near and he had no bucket with which to collect it!
Jesus explained that the water he came to give to people was different – it would become “a spring of water welling up to eternal life.” She was a practical woman and responded, “Sir, give me this water, so that I may not be thirsty or have to keep coming here to draw water.”
At this, Jesus asked her to bring her husband. Turns out, she was not currently married, had been married five times and was now living with another man. This was a shock for her to hear. There was no way he could have known that about her. “Sir, I can see that you are a prophet.”
A discussion of where people should worship followed and Jesus told her the time was coming when neither the temple in Jerusalem nor the mountain in Samaria would be the place to worship. “Salvation is from the Jews.” Yet the time had come when all that would change and worship would now occur “in Spirit and truth.” All this would happen because “God is Spirit and those who worship him must worship in Spirit and truth.”
The narration continues for a while, with the return of the disciples and the return of people from the village to meet Jesus, based on the testimony of the woman of Samaria. He stayed there in the town for several days and many came to believe in him. (Jn 4:5-42)
We must choose – Rage or Gentleness?
So, what does this all have to do with water? How does water in its gentle or wilder forms fit into the picture?
As humans, we all too often think that only a strong, forceful response to opposition, oppression, or wrong-doing will bring about a change of heart in the one who acts that way. We believe that war or other forms of aggression are justified as a way to make others behave the way we see as correct and just. We see the cost in innocent lives as something that can’t be avoided. And yet, when the ocean waves crashing on the shore cause the cliff to collapse, it doesn’t get restored. It simply washes away. There is no possibility of change or “redemption” that keep the destruction from being permanent. The cliff is diminished, and with enough storms, it will eventually be gone completely.
The Lord does not call us to use violence or anger in addressing injustice or oppression. Those only create more anger and a desire for vengeance. The cycle becomes unending – like a feud between two families that continues generation after generation. There can be no end until someone decides to forgive and find a way to work together.
That is our call as followers of Jesus. We are to be the peacemakers who work to find common ground. We are to work together to find and demonstrate the reality that the Good is not limited. There can be enough of existing resources to go around. No one needs to be left out. It’s just that no one can or should have an excess of those resources either.
It’s absolutely the case that some political systems, some governments, some organizations, are not committed to working towards the common good of their people, to say nothing of all humanity. It’s very easy to want to keep a lavish lifestyle or power over others. All too often that can be phrased in religious language or the language of tradition – “that’s just the way it is!” But violence does not bring about positive change any more than the crashing of the waves against it makes the cliff stronger.
The quiet water of love, reconciliation, respectful communication, good-will in conversation, and solution-seeking is what the Lord offers as a spring that wells up inside us and leads to peace among all humans. Bombs will never change hearts. Drone operators can hit where other weapons cannot reach. Security will never come from violence. Those things only provoke anger and a desire for revenge.
Jesus didn’t come with armies. He came with a promise of living water and its power to change our lives, our traditions, our stories and histories. We haven’t always been good at following his lead. But we are called again and again to remember that Jesus didn’t come with armies to force change. He came and offered himself and his life to reopen our relationship with the Father. The Son through whom God proved his love for us, though we were still sinners who kept trying to do it our own way and failing miserably, proved his love with his life, death, and resurrection. (Rom 5:1-2, 5-8)
We are called to the same on this day as we remember both the water at Meribah and Massah and the living water offered to a Samaritan woman at Jacob’s well.
Readings for the Third Sunday of Lent – Cycle A
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