Go Forward, Go Backward, or Stay Put
A train set can provide hours of entertainment for children and adults alike. A basic set allows the train to go around and around in circles or ovals. With a few specialty pieces, it’s possible to set up multiple paths. With enough of these specialty pieces, the trains can go straight ahead, turn around and go backwards, or just go in small little circles, never actually getting anywhere else.
As children grow older, and more parts are added to the set, the sky is the limit (as well as the floor space) regarding how complex the creation can become. There are tunnels, overpasses, buildings, passengers, even animals that can be in the pastures or villages through which the train passes. As the child’s vision expands, hours are spent dreaming and creating the countryside through which the train passes.
As adults, most of us don’t design transportation systems, or bridges, or buildings, or spacecraft. But that does not mean we have no reason or opportunity to dream and create a future for ourselves and our families.
Decision times come in various disguises.
Transitional Times for a People
What do we do in times of transition? Where do we send our trains? Do we go forward into new dreams and possibilities? Do we look longingly at the way things used to be – what some call “the Good Old Days?” Do we simply try to keep things just the way they are, with no major changes?
These are questions that people have had to answer for themselves for thousands of years.
The Book of Joshua was written long after the events which it describes. Most scholars agree that there is no good way to say when they occurred or even if they did in the way described. Yet the story is told to describe a relationship between God and the Hebrew people after they left Egypt and as they moved into the land of Palestine.
It was a bloody history of conquest, as were most such events in the ancient world. Peoples moved into lands occupied by others and killed off most of the original inhabitants. Genocide is not a new phenomenon in the world.
Following the death of Moses, Joshua led the people across the Jordan River and into the land of Caanan. One by one, the tribal peoples living there were conquered and their lands assigned to the twelve tribes of Israel. As long as the people lived in compliance with the Covenant, all went well with the conquest and settlement of the land. When they did not, things went badly.
As Joshua neared the end of his life, he called the leaders of all the tribes together at Shechem. He set out the possible options for them going forward once he had reached the end of his life and leadership time.
“If it does not please you to serve the Lord, decide today whom you will serve.” This was the first option, though phrased in a negative format. Option 1 = Move forward with the Lord.
“… the gods your fathers served beyond the River…” – those from the days before Abraham moved from Ur in Mesopotamia in response to the Lord’s call. Option 2 = Go back to the very beginning.
“… or the gods of the Amorites in whose country you are now dwelling.” Option 3 = Stay put and don’t upset things as they are!
Joshua then added his own decision for his family: “As for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.” His decision was to move forward.
Blessedly for the rest of us who are part of the tradition of the three great Abrahamic religions, the leaders of the people agreed that they and their communities would also serve the Lord, “for he is our God.” (Jos 24:1-2a, 15-17, 18b)
Relationships in New Perspectives
St. Paul wrote to the Ephesians about the relationship of Christ and the church, the community of believers. In his time, women were not treated as equals to the men in their families. They were part of their father’s family until they were married, at which time they became part of their husband’s family. They did not have any independence or freedom to make their own decisions about most things. Their ability to move about freely was highly limited and their survival depended on the good will of the men.
Within the Christian community, however, women received more respect and had more freedom. The women who traveled with Jesus were respected by the community of disciples. A woman was the first to testify to having seen Jesus after the resurrection. Women were worthy of respect.
Paul spoke of the relationship of Christ and the church in terms of marriage. Christ is head of the church and its savior. Christ loves the church and gave himself to make us holy. The relationship between Christ and the church is like that of a husband and wife. Each is to love the other. He speaks of women as subordinate to their husbands, but that is not to be understood as mandatory in any way for today’s relationships. He balanced his statement about women with the totally revolutionary statement that men are to love their wives and care for them as they do their own bodies. This was absolutely new and unexpected. (Eph 5:21-32 or 5:2a, 25-32)
In the Catechism of the Catholic Church, the notion of subordination of women is totally absent.
“Holy Scripture affirms that man and woman were created for one another: “It is not good that the man should be alone.” The woman, “flesh of his flesh,” his equal, his nearest in all things, is given to him by God as a “helpmate”; she thus represents God from whom comes our help.” (CCC 1605)
So, go forward – Men and women as equals and helpers to each other?
Go backward – Men as the ones who decide everything for women and control their activities?
Stay put – Recognize that women have rights, but limit those rights and opportunities to what they have now?
Deepening Relationships in Faith
Jesus didn’t leave his claims about his body being real food and his blood real drink as optional statements intended to get folks talking about him or following him. He was absolutely serious about what he was saying. He knew the idea was deeply troubling to many, so he took the question to them, “Does this shock you? What if you were to see the Son of Man ascending to where he was before?” He clarified his statements, noting that “It is the spirit that gives life, while the flesh is of no avail,” but the notion of life after death was not universally accepted in the Jewish community of his day. His statements seemed like those of a madman, unless he truly was the person he was claiming to be: Son of the Lord God, the One who was to come.
Most of the people who had come to see him, hoping for more healings or meals, left him after these statements. It was just too much to accept. We don’t eat human flesh and we don’t drink or eat blood at all, would be their reaction. Eating the blood of an animal was forbidden by the law of Moses. Meat was always treated to remove blood before it was pure enough to consume.
Blessedly for us, when Jesus asked Peter and the others if they too would leave, Peter gave his statement of faith that we share: “Master, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life. We have come to believe … that you are the Holy One of God.” (Jn 6:60-69)
Only two options this time. Walk away – this is all too much and not possibly true – Go back!
Remain and move forward in faith that this man is really the Holy One of God who gives his flesh and blood as food for the life of the world – Go forward!
Decisions today
As so often happens, we come to times of decision in our lives today too.
Will we retreat in fear from those we don’t know or understand? Will we put up walls of silence or mockery, or restricted access to the necessities of life, or bricks? Will we demonize those whose ways we don’t understand?
Will we close our eyes and just wish it would all go away already? What if we just sit this one out? Nothing ever changes, why bother?
Or will we choose to move forward, following our Lord in service to the poor, to refugees, to the lonely, the sick, the dying, the little ones of God? Giving of ourselves and sharing the gifts we have? Trusting that all will work out all right if we all work and share together?
Just as in the days of Joshua, Paul, and Jesus, we have decisions to make for ourselves, our families, and our world. Will we be like children who send the trains in circles around and around? Or will we be like those who send them cycling back again and again to other simpler areas of the world they have created with their tracks? Or will we be like those who lay the tracks so that the trains can go forward in many ways, taking direct routes or “scenic” routes along the way to their destination?
My Great-grandmother was known to remark that “the good old days weren’t so good!” It’s a perspective worth remembering as we move through the days and weeks to come. She grew up in a time of travel by horses and carts, lived through two World Wars, as well as Korea and Vietnam, saw the moon landing, and watched her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren grow up in a world far different from the one into which she was born. “The Good Old Days weren’t so good,” was her advice.
Time goes forward. So do we. How will we lay out the tracks for our journey now?
Readings for the Twenty-first Sunday in Ordinary Time – Cycle B
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