Ephraim is My First-born
In patriarchal societies, the first-born son holds a special place of honor and authority. This person will inherit leadership of the family upon his father’s death. He will get extra privileges and opportunities that are not open to his brothers, and certainly not to his sisters. His mother may refer to him with special terms of affection not shared with her other children – my king, my prince. He will get away with behavior that would draw punishment for other children in the family. And all siblings will be taught that his will is to be obeyed as they go through life.
This may sound like the reality of life as a member of a royal family and indeed most of the royal families of our day are headed by men. As we saw with Queen Elizabeth II, it’s no longer essential to be male to rule an empire, but it’s a relatively rare phenomenon. In most Western societies it is not as strictly the norm, though certain elements remain to this day.
The prophecy of Jeremiah regarding the return of the Jewish people from exile in Babylon includes an interesting statement, therefore. (Remember, this was a patriarchal society.) The Lord says through Jeremiah, “I am a father to Israel, Ephraim is my first-born.”
Ephraim was the second-born son of Joseph. Joseph was one of Jacob’s twelve sons, but far from being the first, he was actually the eleventh. His mother was Jacob’s favorite wife, Rachel. Joseph married a woman in Egypt and had two sons, Manasseh and Ephraim. Given the general rules of patriarchal society, there’s no way Ephraim would be considered anyone’s firstborn! Yet Jeremiah, speaking for the Lord in prophecy, says Ephraim is the Lord’s firstborn.
How could that happen?
Jacob was a twin, born second to his parents, Isaac and Rebecca. His older brother sold his right to the blessing reserved for the firstborn to Jacob for a bowl of food one day. Rebecca helped Jacob fool Isaac into actually giving the blessing to Jacob. The inheritance of the promised leadership of the family passed to Jacob. It could not be withdrawn and reassigned.
Jacob had to flee to another land to escape his brother’s anger. There he met Joseph’s mother. He married both Rachel and her sister Leah. (It’s a long story …)
Eventually, he had twelve sons and at least one daughter, with two wives and their servants as mothers to his children. Joseph was sold into slavery in Egypt by jealous brothers. (Another long story…)
When the family was reunited, Jacob was delighted that Joseph had sons and adopted them as his own. As Jacob neared the end of his life, he had blessings for each of his sons. When he came to Joseph, he gave the blessing to the younger son, Ephraim rather than to Manasseh. Joseph tried to correct his father, but Jacob insisted and gave Ephraim the blessing reserved for the firstborn son.
At the time of the conquest that led to the exile in Babylon, the lands settled by the descendants of Ephraim were among the first conquered in the north of Israel. In the midst of all of the sorrow and pain of the conquest and exile, Jeremiah spoke words of hope. Importantly, he also spoke words of affirmation of the value of people who had very little status in their society. Anyone with physical limitations or disabilities, women – especially when pregnant – and children were considered to be second class and often “unclean” and therefore were kept away from ordinary folks.
Jeremiah, speaking the word of the Lord, declares “Shout with joy for Jacob… The Lord has delivered his people, the remnant of Israel.” Then he adds something amazing as he promises to gather his people from all the ends of the world. This promise specifically includes the blind, the lame, the mothers, those who are pregnant, and the children themselves. He will lead them back to their homeland, consoling and making level roads with brooks of water nearby to quench their thirst on the journey. Why? “For I am a father to Israel, Ephraim is my first-born.” (Jer 31:7-9)
The Lord does not treat us as if we were members of a patriarchal society and need to remember that the powerful are born to rule, regardless of their fitness to do so. Those who care for the vulnerable – the women and children, those with handicaps, those who flee for their lives from their homelands, those who are poor. These are the ones the Lord calls his firstborn. These are the ones we are to imitate and serve as our sisters and brothers.
Jesus also treated those who were marginalized with care and respect. He healed Bartimaeus from the blindness that had limited his options to begging by the side of the road to get enough to buy food and shelter. Jesus didn’t assume anything, however, when he heard Bartimaeus’ call and told his followers to call him over. Instead, he respectfully asked, “What do you want me to do for you?” Bartimaeus responded, “Master, I want to see.” Jesus healed him on the spot, “Go your way; your faith has saved you.” His sight was restored immediately and he followed Jesus on the way to Jerusalem. (Mk 10:46-52)
In Mark’s Gospel, this healing is the last one before Jesus arrived in Jerusalem. The events we remember during Holy Week followed.
Reflecting on Jesus’ role in sacrificing his life in witness to his calling to proclaim the Kingdom and experience everything it is to be human except sin, the author of the letter to the Hebrews reflects on the role and calling of the High Priest. The High Priest in the days of the temple was chosen from among the people, called to represent them before God and to offer sacrifice in the most sacred part of the temple. Dating from the time in the desert, even before the temple had been imagined, God called individuals to fulfill the role of offering these sacrifices. It was always a calling from God, not a position that a person could campaign to gain. Even Jesus was selected to act as high priest, called by the Father and anointed priest in a way that could never end. Jesus, the one through whose sacrifice of his own life freed all, was the son begotten by the Father to accomplish this great task, to end the division between God and humanity. (Heb 5:1-6)
God does not look at our status, our birth order, our gender, our physical appearance, our physical prowess, our strengths when looking at us. God looks at our hearts, at how we love and respect each other, at how we reach out to help and support each other. How do we help the poor? How do we treat those who seek shelter here when they must leave their homes in other lands? How do we care for those with special needs? How patient can we be with those ahead of us in line at the grocery store? How do we share the road, especially if we are running late? How do we share our riches so that others will have enough too?
We are at a time of great turmoil in the world and in our nation in these days. We are called to be open and to love, not to slam shut the doors of our hearts, our lands, and our pocketbooks, hoping to keep out the needy and those who fear for their lives. If and when we slam shut the doors, we become blind to the love of God and the saving grace gained for us by our great high priest, Jesus. May we this week and in the weeks to come allow ourselves to be healed of the blindness that keeps us from seeing God’s presence in those around us.
“Open my eyes, Lord, Help me to see your face, Open my eyes, Lord, Help me to see!”
Readings for the Thirtieth Sunday in Ordinary Time – Cycle B
Open My Eyes – Song by Jesse Manibusan
